• This is one of the best lessions from human history. You may or may not be to blame for what happens to you, but either way you are responsible fo doing something about it.
• Disagreement is refreshing when two men lovingly desire to compare their views to find out truth. Convroversy is wretched when it is only an attempt to prove another wrong.
• One of the oddly inspiring action styles of enduring successful people is that contention is something they actually seekout.
• Builders see creative contention as part of a rich collaborative process that never ends .. it inspires action day in and day out in an ever changing environment.
• "inBank" Anyone of the team members can click on the button (panic) and give us a stupid rule to kill.
• Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exists in nature, nor do the childern of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run that outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
  

What next..

• I found people who are always worried about the next move in the chess game of their life never quite get at that move
• Builders insists that self esteem comes from trying and failing, trying and failing and succeeding with small wins and doing the work a little better each time.
• Experience is a hard teacher. She give the test first. the lessons afterwards..
• Gain is the edge of loss; loss is the heart of gain. Having many difficulties perfects the being, having no difficulties ruins the being.
• Builders harvest failure
• Builders (Great Personalities) achieve enduring success when they pour themselves into constructive habits limiting their additions to the passions that serve them.
• They just tolerate the risks, feel the fear, take the brickbats, learn from failure and do what matters to them anyway... (http://moltable.ncl.res.in/icci)
• It is hard to fight an enemy who has outposts in your head.
• Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way thins turn out.
• Enduringly successful people have found that the answer to their life's purpose is buried not in passionate love or pain alone, but in the struggle over both together, working in strange harmony.
• Builders let go of what doesn't work when it is not working. They don't make the future pay the debts of the past.
• Builders claim that its your choice to decide whether to be the victim or a beneficiary of what there is to harvest from the most difficult circumstances.
• Like the princes in the story, builders describe their path as adventures filled with bad breaks and un planned good fortune. Only a prepared mind and open heart prevails.
• Indeed for builders who stay true to what they know and what matters to them, things actually have a knack of turning out better than they imagined.

Success building..

• Ironically, at the same time society insists that you do one thing with your life, those same cultural norms pressure you to have a "balanced" life split into neat little slices.
• You don't have to make a career of everything that is meaningful to you, but you do need to find a place for everything that is meaningful to you. That's the balance that you are seeking..
• Carve out a little time each week, one the job or after work, to experiment in some way with one of your other passions..
• The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorabe, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you lived and lived well..
• To ask them why they are still working is to dismiss their passions as trivial pursuits.We made that mistake more than once in our interviews. It seemed an innocent question, but only served to demonstrate that we didnot get it..
• If there was one thing they all do consistently - one value that they all share in common - it is integrity to what matters to them..
• Each of us has to struggle in our own in our own individual way to achieve a measurement of success.
• As it turns out, all of the stories of enduringly successful people have some improbable quality to them.
• Those who donot know how to weep with their whole heart don't know how to laugh either.
• It is like the wizart of Oz. We're looking for a wizard seeking a heart, a brain, courage and the wizard says you already have these things. All you need to do is to use it. When you believe in your great indomitable self, then all things are possible.
• Happy ending come from listening to that little voice inside your head - some call it the whisper about what matters to you.
• Ultimately, no form of aquisition (having) or activity (doing) can astingy deliver what we long for, the authentic experience of being fully alive.
• Do you care more about being loved than being what you love?
• Enduringly successful people have concluded that their commitment to the service of others is also in their self interest.
• Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone's else's life..
• In order for you to do what matters in a way that you are healthy, you can't pretend or deaden out like a machine- to steel yourself doesnot work. You have to feel everything and use it.
• Your personality is not what determines enduring success; it is what you do with your personality that counts.
• If it's worth doing then for heaven's sake treat it as if it's worth doing..
• Life take passion, determinination and skill. Rice cautioned.. You can't skip any of those three and expect to enjoy success built to.. LAST..

Success built to last for ever..

• Healthy, sustainable socieities require the creation of healthy, sustainable organizations and great organizations and societies can only be built by human beings who can grow and create meaningful success.
• We learned that, for the most part extraordinary people, teams and organizations are simply ordinary people doing extraordinary things that matters to them.
• Until you "figure out what succes means" to you personally and to your organization, leadership is an almost "pointless conversation".
• Famous executives out there fundamentally gild and lily. They don't tell you the awful truth about the pain you will face.
• The current definition of success is a potentially toxic prescription for your life and work.
• Success built to last: [meaning] [thought] [action]
• Become consciously aware of what matters to you and then rally your thought and action to support your definition of meaning. That is what we call alignment.
• Most of us worry more about being loved that being what we love.
• The only place where you find success before work is in the dictionary.
• Perfection is finally attained not when there is no longer anything to add but when there is no longer anything to take away.
• Listen up: here is some really bad news: It's dangerous not to do what you love..
• Execution: The discipline of getting things done" That's what executives are paid for...
• To spend any part of your career not knowing why you're there will take your power away. It is dangerous not to be fully engaged.
• You know they say that success is getting what you want and happiness is wanting what you get.
• When you are deeply immersed in the process of doing whatever you are doing and completely lose track of time and place you are in a flow experience.
• Celebrating what's right with the world s an excruciating unhip and uncool thing to do. We are carefully trained by safety conscious parents, in-laws, institutions of higher learning and the evening news to ignore or ridicule optimistic people.
• No one can tell you what risks you should take. We are insisting that you must choose a path that you love for better or for worse.
• It is exciting to see how fast your kids learn and grow. I am not too worried about them, particularly the ones who like to break the rules and don't follow instructions; those are the ones that will do just fine, because they know what's important to them. (Michael Dell)
• To find your mission in life is to discover the instersection between your heart's deep gladness and the worlds deep hunger.
• If I see something I don't like , I try to change it, and if can't change it, I change my position of looking at it, and then by seeing it from an different angle. I might be able to change it; or I might find some good in it that I can use, which might make it change itself.

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Lessons for Life - #2

• Reputation is what you need to get a job Character is what you need to keep it.
  

• One of the most difficult things to give away is kindness, for it is usually returned..

• Success is not getting the most you can, but giving the best you can.

• A Real friend warms you by is presence, trusts you with his secrets, and remembers you in his prayers.

• Taking time to stop, rest and relax is not time wasted - it will keep you going even longer, and with more inspiration.

• Do you own your possessions or do your possessions own you?

• Some people treat God as they do a lawyer; they go to Him only when they are in trouble.

lessons for LIFE

• Most of us spend a lot of time dreaming of the future, never realizing that a little of it arrives each day.
  

• Choice, not chace determines destiny

• All changes are difficult and sometimes costly, but if they're good changes, in the long run they pay off

• Knowledge is knowing the facts; wisdom is knowing what to do with the facts you know

• At times we may not know where God is, but we can be confident that He knows where we are
  

• Don't mind criticism. If it's untrue, disregard it; if it's unfair, stay calm; if it's ignorant, smile; if it's justified, learn from it.

• Love is a gift that God places in the hearts of people the world over.

• No one can read your mind, so what they see, hear, and feel from you is what they'll know you for.
  

• Force yourself to think on the good things. Look for the good qualities in others; then your actions, expressions and words will automatically reflect those good things you've been thinking and meditating on.

• There is great difference between worry and concern: worry frets about a problem; concern solves the problem.
  

• Good is often the enemy of the best